Discover Your Real Self &
Improve Your Relationships
As you have arrived at this site you probably want to find Your Real True Self. Your True Self is the person you have been hiding behind
your masked persona for most of your life. The mask that you wear (and are hidden behind) in the outside world. This mask protects your True Self but has been designed by others.
It is Time to Come Out from Behind Your Mask and Let the World see the Real You
The mask you wear (and hide behind) has developed gradually in response to all the multitude of experiences you have had whilst you have been growing up.
As you search for your real persona you will probably find that you start to experience small changes to your personality. These changes will enable you to improve your relationships with other people.
As you emerge from behind your mask, the person you become will be more real and attractive. You can leave behind some of the defensiveness you learnt in the past, which made relating difficult for you.
What a Great Bonus!
You can achieve both these special goals if you are really determined to do so:
The steps you will take to work towards these goals are fascinating and may be steep at times. They can even be painful, but, once you start the exercise, life will certainly be different.
In order to find your real self you will have to:
– Change your Perception of the World -
The perception you hold at present will probably be distorted by a lifetime of programming from others as well as by yourself. As you work your way through this site you will meet the different areas where these distortions can arise. They will not all be relevant to you, but each stage will have had some impact upon your life and why you have got to where you are now.
Remember, every person is unique in the many combinations of experiences they have had even in the same family. In some of the outlying areas of the UK if you get lost and ask a local person how to get to the village you are seeking you may well get this reply-
“Well I would not Start From Here If I was You”
For some of you, who are reading this, it might be an appropriate comment for you if your life has been very difficult and complicated. Unfortunately we have no choice.
For you, the traveller, and the reader, we have to start from where you are now- we cannot erase the past or what it has created for you as an individual. Each of you has your own burdens to carry;
Each of you has suffered different levels of pain, rejection, or loss; All those experiences have been absorbed into your deeper self; These are the fundamental elements of your unique personality;
This is why you may have been left wondering:
WHO AM I?
This site is designed to help you to understand the areas you will have to explore in general terms. Would you like more help and information about self-help to explore these issues?If so, the e-book Who Am I? was been written to deal with them in more depth and detail.
For full details about the contents of this unique book and information about purchasing and downloading it for yourself:
You can also obtain access to Dr Gordon for personal help if that would be of interest to you.
A First Question for you to think about before leaving this page and moving on through the website: If you have drunk half a pint of liquid out of a pint mug